I have often said that I never thought back when I was covering the brutal battles of the Civil Rights Movement that I would live to see an African-American president. But at least in the shank of the evening over an adult beverage or two that was something we would speculate about. What no one ever thought to even discuss was whether we would have legalized gay marriage anywhere, let alone now in all 50 states.
It might be difficult for some of my younger readers to realize, but for most of my life what we now refer to as the LGBT community was never discussed in "polite" company. And all of the horrible epithets for gays were bandied about without a second thought. Today President Obama mentions LGBT in a speech and no one takes notice. The White House is bathed in a rainbow light and it becomes an internet meme. It's a far cry from what Democratic Senator Edmund Muskie was quoted as saying when he ran for president in 1972. "Goddamn it, if I have to be nice to a bunch of sodomites to be elected President, then f--k it." That was certainly the prevailing political calculation at the time.
I was raised in a religious household in Texas and I understand the deeply-held religious beliefs that many people who are concerned with the Supreme Court ruling have. (I distinguish this from the cynical political motives driving some public officials and media personalities to decry marriage equality). I do believe that people of good faith can disagree on this. But at the same time, I am heartened that so many of my fellow Americans are changing their minds. It's a journey I myself have followed.
When I was young, I wasn't very enlightened on gay issues. I probably, if asked at the time, wouldn't have been very tolerant by today's standards. But two important things happened. One is that I had some very close friends come out to me. This was decades ago and it reoriented me, an experience I imagine is similar for so many people. It's easy to see gays as "others" until one is a close family member, colleague or friend.
The other thing that happened is I saw my mission as a journalist to give voice to the powerless. And for most of my career the LGBT community was the voiceless and powerless. There is more to be done but I am happy today that LGBT voices are now a much fuller part of our national discourse. We are a better nation because of it.