Dr. Hanks writes a follow-up to respond to several of the comments from the original piece. More good stuff. I seriously don't know how you can read these and still be "yeah, but..."
http://ldsmag.com/misunderstanding-m...s-to-comments/We teach that modesty is important because it invites people to pay attention to our personalities rather than our appearance. But if we’ve gotten to the point where we scrutinize women’s outfits to make sure that the sleeve reaches all the way to the edge of the shoulder and that the skirt reaches all the way to the knee, or if we make snap judgments about a woman’s character based on whether or not her outfit exactly meets the standards in For the Strength of Youth, then we’ve come back around to judging people based on their appearance, and the point of the principle has been lost.