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    Quote Originally Posted by Diehard Ute View Post
    But you must admit it's unlikely the 10th Circuit will overturn this ruling, and even less likely the Supreme Court will hear it.
    I really don't know. I haven't read the opinion. Keep in mind, I think same-sex marriage in inevitable. I'm just puzzled that you and AJ seem to think that a trial court ruling means game, set and match to the plaintiffs in this case.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LA Ute View Post
    I really don't know. I haven't read the opinion. Keep in mind, I think same-sex marriage in inevitable. I'm just puzzled that you and AJ seem to think that a trial court ruling means game, set and match to the plaintiffs in this case.
    I don't think it means that, but I do think it will survive appeal. (And for at least one couple they have won, they were married at the Salt Lake County Clerks office this afternoon)

    I wish our elected representatives were wise enough to not waste limited resources trying to appeal this because I don't think Utah will win the appeal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LA Ute View Post
    I really don't know. I haven't read the opinion. Keep in mind, I think same-sex marriage in inevitable. I'm just puzzled that you and AJ seem to think that a trial court ruling means game, set and match to the plaintiffs in this case.
    I'm not sure why you think I think that. I simply stated that it's coming, a point with which you agree.

    Anyway, I don't even know why the clerks are issuing marriage licenses. (Having not read the opinion) doesn't this decision just overturn the Utah constitutional amendment? I presume there would still have to be a law enacted to allow same-sex marriages before the clerks could issue them, no?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Applejack View Post
    I'm not sure why you think I think that. I simply stated that it's coming, a point with which you agree.

    Anyway, I don't even know why the clerks are issuing marriage licenses. (Having not read the opinion) doesn't this decision just overturn the Utah constitutional amendment? I presume there would still have to be a law enacted to allow same-sex marriages before the clerks could issue them, no?
    I don't know. I try to stay as far away from the workings of Utah politics and law as I can. I heard on the radio that the state is seeking a stay from the 10th circuit, which is typical in cases like this

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    Marriage Equality Thread

    Quote Originally Posted by Applejack View Post
    I'm not sure why you think I think that. I simply stated that it's coming, a point with which you agree.

    Anyway, I don't even know why the clerks are issuing marriage licenses. (Having not read the opinion) doesn't this decision just overturn the Utah constitutional amendment? I presume there would still have to be a law enacted to allow same-sex marriages before the clerks could issue them, no?
    No, from what I understand, the way the legal wrangling has gone, Utah chose to go down the path of banning such marriages rather than legalizing others. (That's why Sim Gill was consulted prior to the issuance of the first license)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Diehard Ute View Post
    But you must admit it's unlikely the 10th Circuit will overturn this ruling, and even less likely the Supreme Court will hear it.

    Make no mistake about it. Herbert will blow tons of money trying. His shot at Judge Shelby in his statement makes it pretty clear he takes this personally.
    This could very easily go all the way to the Supreme Court. It raises the issue the Court avoided in the Prop 8 case--whether there is a federal constitutional right to gay marriage that trumps state law. That is the big question in all of the gay marriage litigation. The ruling strikes down state constitutional amendment approved by a large % of voters. I would be surprised if the S. Ct. avoids it, unless the 10th Cir. reverses.

    We were wondering today what other district court judge in Utah would have ruled the way Shelby did. Not many. So much depends on the random assignment of the case at the beginning.
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    I have just recorded an interview with Michael Ferguson and Seth Anderson who are the first gay couple to have their marriage solemnized in the state of Utah. I'll put a link up as soon as the editing is complete. Everyone should hear their story in their own words. This is amazing history unfolding.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LA Ute View Post
    Because a trial court ruling is not the end of the story? I mean, I don't know where this will go, but unless I am missing something and Gary Herbert is going to channel Jerry Brown and not defend the statute, this is just beginning.
    I think for Utah the cat is completely out of the bag as a practical matter. Hundreds of people were married tonight and apparently the clerks offices will open tomorrow to issue more licenses. No matter what happens in Denver, the fact is that gay married couples are now going into circulation in Utah. People will very soon see that it has no effect on them whatsoever. That bell cannot be un-rung. And from the reports I am getting, and you'll hear this in the interview, the clerks office was very much in support, the people waiting in line for passports and other things stopped and partook in the moment, and no one seemed anything other than happy. I think the people of Utah will rise to the occasion and that the vast majority of them will move on and feel relieved that this is no longer a defining issue (and least in a public or active sense) for their state or their church. Everyone won today.
    “The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there's little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides.”
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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahDan View Post
    I think for Utah the cat is completely out of the bag as a practical matter. Hundreds of people were married tonight and apparently the clerks offices will open tomorrow to issue more licenses. No matter what happens in Denver, the fact is that gay married couples are now going into circulation in Utah. People will very soon see that it has no effect on them whatsoever. That bell cannot be un-rung. And from the reports I am getting, and you'll hear this in the interview, the clerks office was very much in support, the people waiting in line for passports and other things stopped and partook in the moment, and no one seemed anything other than happy. I think the people of Utah will rise to the occasion and that the vast majority of them will move on and feel relieved that this is no longer a defining issue (and least in a public or active sense) for their state or their church. Everyone won today.
    I know how strongly you feel about this. As you know, philosophically I strongly dislike the idea of changes like this being imposed by judicial fiat. Sadly, I'm not emperor, so things have an annoying way of not going as I would like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Diehard Ute View Post

    I wish our elected representatives were wise enough to not waste limited resources trying to appeal this because I don't think Utah will win the appeal.
    Herbert is stuck. He will likely choose the short term win/long term loss strategy, and will put tremendous effort and funds into fighting this.

    If he chooses to be a martyr on this particular hill he will sacrifice the state treasury with him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NorthwestUteFan View Post
    Herbert is stuck. He will likely choose the short term win/long term loss strategy, and will put tremendous effort and funds into fighting this.

    If he chooses to be a martyr on this particular hill he will sacrifice the state treasury with him.
    Maybe they can take it out of his proposed $37,000 pay raise

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    Quote Originally Posted by Diehard Ute View Post
    Maybe they can take it out of his proposed $37,000 pay raise
    Good idea, but bad precedent.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LA Ute View Post
    I know how strongly you feel about this. As you know, philosophically I strongly dislike the idea of changes like this being imposed by judicial fiat. Sadly, I'm not emperor, so things have an annoying way of not going as I would like.
    But, isn't that why the courts are there? A last refuge against the willful intractability of the other two branches to enforce/uphold the Constitution?
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    Quote Originally Posted by wuapinmon View Post
    But, isn't that why the courts are there? A last refuge against the willful intractability of the other two branches to enforce/uphold the Constitution?
    Do you think that's what the Supreme Court did in Roe v. Wade?

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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahDan View Post
    I have just recorded an interview with Michael Ferguson and Seth Anderson who are the first gay couple to have their marriage solemnized in the state of Utah. I'll put a link up as soon as the editing is complete. Everyone should hear their story in their own words. This is amazing history unfolding.
    http://mormonexpositor.com/59-breaki...anel-analysis/
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    That was fast.

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    That was fast.

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    Greg knows these guys and just took a shot in the dark that they could talk to us and they did. It was sort of impromptu, but they were really great. The headed off to speak to Al Jazeera right after us.


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    Very nicely done UD. You scooped several powerful international news media outlets (al Jazeera, BBC, etc.).

    This is a relief and is a momentous day for Utah. And I agree with Mitch Mayne, this could be a blessing in disguise for the LDS church as it gives them a way out of the corner into which they have painted themselves.

    I also love your Christmas intro song, very nicely done my friend!

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    What a wonderful thing! I'm so happy for many of my friends growing up who had tumultuous childhoods because of their sexual orientation and were ostracized and criticized and condemned because they were who they were. This is a wonderful thing!

    I hope the church doesn't embarrass itself officially or through the actions of its zealous members over this. Or maybe I do because it will be fun to watch unfold. As far as this event is concerned, that is the only problem I need to work out in my mind. The decision is clearly a wonderful spiritual/emotional/physical/equitable/justiciablevictory for freedom and liberty!

    (I love people trying to argue that the 14th amendment was only meant for the issue of
    Slavery and shouldn't extend to any other issue, including gay marriage. Not sure I've heard anything so idiotic in a very long time!)

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    I made the mistake of reading the Deseret News editorial which called the ruling "Judicial Tyranny" and then reading the comments to it.

    No matter which side of this particular debate you stand on, I think we can all agree that the vast majority of Americans have little knowledge of how their government works. It's sad.

    (My favorite was the commenter who wants Shelby removed from the bench as he is not following the "Proclamation On Families")

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    Marriage Equality Thread

    Comments to DesNews articles are deadly.

    "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
    --Antoine de Saint-Exupery

    "Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold."
    --Yeats

    “True, we [lawyers] build no bridges. We raise no towers. We construct no engines. We paint no pictures - unless as amateurs for our own principal amusement. There is little of all that we do which the eye of man can see. But we smooth out difficulties; we relieve stress; we correct mistakes; we take up other men's burdens and by our efforts we make possible the peaceful life of men in a peaceful state.”

    --John W. Davis, founder of Davis Polk & Wardwell

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    I'm new to the forum, so forgive me if this has been brought up before. I haven't read the entire thread.

    Since equality is the basis for the claim, that means that it is acceptable for a (singular) parent to marry a (singular) child so as to avoid paying the estate tax?

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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahDan View Post
    I have just recorded an interview with Michael Ferguson and Seth Anderson who are the first gay couple to have their marriage solemnized in the state of Utah. I'll put a link up as soon as the editing is complete. Everyone should hear their story in their own words. This is amazing history unfolding.
    Wow! I'll have to listen to this. I just realized that I know Michael Ferguson. I used to be in his ward! What a small, strange world we live in.

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    Comments on any online article for any news source are deadly. Even the NYTimes comments are ridiculous.
    Comments are what you read to lose your faith in humanity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rocker Ute View Post
    Comments are what you read to lose your faith in humanity.
    One should have to get a license, in common sense, before being allowed on the Internet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Diehard Ute View Post
    One should have to get a license, in common sense, before being allowed on the Internet.
    Crap, I don't have a chance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rocker Ute View Post
    Comments are what you read to lose your faith in humanity.
    Yep, the Washington Post comments are pretty bad, no matter the subject.

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    It seems to me that by refusing to issue a stay Judge Shelby has moved from a "calling balls and strikes" judge to a true activist judge -- meaning, he's pushing for a particular result and trying to make his ruling difficult to challenge as a practical matter.

    http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/57...y-sex.html.csp
    Last edited by LA Ute; 12-23-2013 at 01:07 PM.

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    I agree with LAU that a stay seems to be in order here.

    But I'm really confused by a lot of this. What a Utah circus.

    1. Why were any marriage licenses issued after the ruling? Isn't the holding of the case that the Utah Constitutional amendment is unconstitutional? The result of that holding is that the legislature is no longer prohibited from providing for same-sex marriage, but it does not seem to require same-sex marriage, right? Essentially, Utah would be a state that only allows "traditional" marriage, but could change that via legislation.
    2. Once we get passed issue 1, why were some counties issuing marriage licenses (SLC) and some weren't (Utah)? I mean, beyond the obvious politics of the two counties. Who is in control of the county clerks' offices?
    3. Once Shelby denied the stay, how can Utah county continue to deny licenses (assuming that point 1 is overcome)? Waiting for the 10th circuit is not the proper response once a stay has been denied. The county offices all seem like sleeper cells-no centralized control.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Applejack View Post
    I agree with LAU that a stay seems to be in order here.

    But I'm really confused by a lot of this. What a Utah circus.

    1. Why were any marriage licenses issued after the ruling? Isn't the holding of the case that the Utah Constitutional amendment is unconstitutional? The result of that holding is that the legislature is no longer prohibited from providing for same-sex marriage, but it does not seem to require same-sex marriage, right? Essentially, Utah would be a state that only allows "traditional" marriage, but could change that via legislation.
    2. Once we get passed issue 1, why were some counties issuing marriage licenses (SLC) and some weren't (Utah)? I mean, beyond the obvious politics of the two counties. Who is in control of the county clerks' offices?
    3. Once Shelby denied the stay, how can Utah county continue to deny licenses (assuming that point 1 is overcome)? Waiting for the 10th circuit is not the proper response once a stay has been denied. The county offices all seem like sleeper cells-no centralized control.
    As to 1, Shelby ruled that marriage is (i) a fundamental right, whether heterosexual or not, so no legislation is needed authorizing same sex licenses, and (2) issuing heterosexual licenses but not same-sex licenses would violate equal protection, so the state cannot continue to issue licenses for one but not the other.

    He specifically addressed the license issue in his ruling.

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